I seem to have a lot of thoughts about Twilight lately. And the funny thing is, my 13 yr old, die hard Twilight fan of a daughter is seeing things similarly. I posted the other day about the lack of ethnicity and then I enjoyed a conversation about it with my kids. During some rare family time, we all sat down and watched New Moon together. This, after Pumpkin announced that she didnât like the third Twilight movie as much as she thought (sheâd just recently seen it a second time). I do not hide my feelings about womenâs rights (or anyoneâs rights for that matter) from my children, but I think itâs important that the kids make up their own minds. But even without my guidance, Pumpkin discovered that Bella is too attached to having a man in her life.
Given that frame of mind, we re-watched New Moon and enjoyed ourselves as we pointed out Bellaâs lack of feminism or self worth during the movie. Not only does Bella need a man to make her life complete, she needs a âsuperâ man of sorts; an all powerful superhuman type of guy. Here are Bellaâs other needs and faults as we saw them.
â¢ Bella is very clumsy. VERY clumsy. Always needing to be rescued.
â¢ She lets both men in her life drive her car. Chauvinism much?
â¢ Edward tosses her around a lot; tossing her across a room to escape being bitten, tossing her over his shoulders so they can climb trees, or tossing her away when he thinks they shouldnât date anymore.
â¢ Jacob also carries Bella around a lot, almost always shirtless. Whatâs that about?
â¢ Bella is an adrenaline junkie: in New Moon sheâs constantly setting herself up to get hurt, and in Eclipse, she cuts herself on purpose.
â¢ Both guys in her life tell her to go away and that they donât want her. But she wonât believe it.
â¢ Bella leads Jacob on. Sheâs a close talker and EVERY conversation they have is close up. No wonder the poor boy always tries to kiss her. She is sending him mixed messages!
â¢ She feels like sheâs Mother Earth and needs to protect her boyfriends. Soâ¦sheâs all powerful but yet not worthy of anyoneâs love.
â¢ And most importantly, she is willing to die for the love of her life. Why do kids always want to die to prove their love for someone?
I canât discuss this series without talking about the lack of parenting in this series. I understand that young adult literature usually has parents who are in the background of sorts and thatâs OK. But in this story, it doesnât quite make sense. First of all, the Mom gets remarried first and lets the daughter go and live with the Dad? Who ever heard of such nonsense? And the Dad stays a bachelor forever? Thatâs kinda odd too. It is the men who usually remarry first. Ok so Charlie is still holding out for Bellaâs mom. He needs help. Or to move on. And Charlie, you let Bella sit and mope for months after Edward leaves?? Bad Dad, Bad. Give her a week or something and then talk to her. But no, you let her suffer all fall and winter. Dude, sheâs having nightmares and doesnât eat. She needs some help. Get her some counseling or some Prozac. And how come the mother is no where in the movie? If the daughter is that out of it, the mom should be right there offering her support. Momâs understand about heartbreak. Itâs what we do.
What are you thoughts on the series? Agree or not?